The Joy of Being Selfish by Michelle Elman, described as ‘one of the books in 2021 that will change your life’ by Stylist, is published today in hardback, ebook and audio.

‘A practical guide that will reclaim your  time, energy and self-belief’, it’s the definitive book on boundaries, why you need them and how to set them. Michelle is a five-board accredited life coach and has been coined Queen of Boundaries on social media for her candid advice and advocacy of self love – something you can only achieve if you have boundaries in place. She searched for a resource, a guide to boundaries, and when she didn’t find one, decided to write a book on them herself.



• Do you frequently say ‘yes’ to people and events to keep those around you happy?
• Do you often find yourself emotionally exhausted and physically drained?
• Do people describe you as a pushover or ‘too nice’?

Creating and upholding strong boundaries will teach others how to treat you, rid your life of drama and toxic relationships and allow you to love yourself and others in the best way you can.

Make sure you get a copy now  – or order the audiobook and listen to Michelle tell you it for herself – and, as Stylist says, change your life.